................In the last few weeks we have had our inlaws bash and attack us for an stupid issue that should have been cleared up before the towns people were sent in on their un-reasoning horses with their pitchforks and filthy mouths.... we found out that there are also other parts of the family that have shown us what it means to not trust people.... on the flip side I have "friends", "friends" that have intregal parts in our life events and have been there for years, up and decide that our friendship isnt really that important after all........
...................... And here is my/our decision on these stressful people... we dont need you!
.........I knew moving to San Diego for my marriage and my husbands sake was going to have to come with sacrifice. But, thats what you do when you are married. Your sacrifice for that other person. You take the other persons side regardless you stick up for them you have their back......
.............its crazy thats have I kind of view friendship too....
......... Unknowing to everyone we have enough things to worry about rather then having to worry about your new drama every other day. We have a baby on the way.... we have jobs to worry about when we come home.... we have money to worry about... we have repairs to our house to worry about..... we shouldnt have to worry about other peoples children in our family being disrespectful and horrible... and I for one dont think I should have to worry about my friendships....
..............We are who we are.... we believe what we believe... yes and those Issues may be posted about on facebook.... if you have a problem with who I am or what I say hows about you say something instead of being coward and unfriending me just because you think I push my opinion down peoples throats.... you dont like my opinion? you have the freedom to scroll on past it :) and if you think we cant be friends because my opinions well thats fine.... I am old enough now that what I believe is what I believe.... your not going to change my opinion and honestly if i respect you enough Im gonna scroll on past your post... you can do the same..........
......... Oh and also just so you can understand time zones.... when it is 1:00 here which is when I usally go into work it is 4:00 at home..... sooo when Im available to talk in the morning.... your at work! when you can talk after work.... Im at work! I rarely get to talk to my parents even because of this.... Im not ignoring you Im being considerate.... I can always call you after I get off work thats about 10:30 your time...... so no im not just not talking to you how about your not talking to me????
